Thursday, April 30, 2009

25 Weeks



25 weeks was a milestone for me for some reason. I guess when this whole things started I couldn't believe I would some day be 25 weeks pregnant. So I'm excited about my 25th week of pregnancy. Now I'm only 2 weeks from my 3rd trimester which is CRAZY! My 2nd trimester went by really fast, unlike my first. It has definitely been the most fun. I'm bracing myself for 3rd trimester. It's the 3rd trimester that can make or break any fun pregnancy. Even the happiest pregnant woman in the world can be brought down by the 3rd trimester. I, however, am planning on taking each day with a spoon full of love and reminders of how grateful I am to be able to experience a healthy pregnancy. Hopefully this will get me through the sleepless nights and the aching vagina -- which are sure to come. It has been suggested that this will most likely not be the case and I will be cursing God for having put me in this capsule of discomfort. But we'll come back to this topic in 10 weeks and do a fair analysis.

My comments today are in Red.

How your baby is growing:


Head to heels, your baby now measures about 13 1/2 inches. Her weight — a pound and a half — isn't much more than an average rutabaga, but she's beginning to exchange her long, lean look for some baby fat. I really hope I have a fat baby. Actually, I really hope I have an expandable baby. A slender baby at delivery (like the size of a quarter, so it slides right out) but then when it hits oxygen it expands in to a nice chunky baby with fat rolls and chubby fists. You know -like those toys that grow in water??? As she does, her wrinkled skin will begin to smooth out and she'll start to look more and more like a newborn. She's also growing more hair — and if you could see it, you'd now be able to discern its color and texture. What color hair? I'm thinking light brown. Something between mine and Eric's.



How your life's changing

Your baby's not the only one with more hair — your locks may look more full and lustrous than ever. I've not really noticed. I've always had thick hair so it doesn't seem much different now...It's not that you're growing more hair, but thanks to hormonal changes, the hair that you'd normally shed is sticking around longer than usual. Enjoy the fullness while you can — the extra hair will fall out after you give birth. Eric is going to freak out! I already hear about how much hair he pulls from the shower drain! I'm sure this will be a big cause for one of Eric's famous rants. Nothing makes me laugh harder!

You may also notice that you can't move around as gracefully as before. You can say that again! I fell over trying to put my bathrobe on the other day. I smacked right in to the wall. Unless your caregiver has advised you otherwise, it's fine to continue to exercise, but follow a few safety rules: Don't work out when you're feeling overly tired and stop if you feel any pain, dizziness, or shortness of breath. I have shortness of breath when I walk down the hall. This kid has hijacked my lung capacity! Don't lie flat on your back and avoid contact sports as well as any exercise where you're apt to lose your balance. Be sure to drink plenty of water, and make time for both warm-up and cool-down periods.

When you have your glucose-screening test at 24 to 28 weeks Yuck!, a second tube of blood may be taken at the same time to check for anemia. If blood tests show that you have iron-deficiency anemia (the most common type of anemia), your caregiver will probably recommend that you take an iron supplement. Oh I really don't want this. I think Iron is the culprit for major constipation. I'm fine thanks. I don't need anymore of that.

Have you started thinking about baby names yet? Yep! We're done! Click here to see our names. Choosing a name is an important decision, but it should be a fun one, too. You may want to consider family history (Great Grandpa Zeb), favorite locations (Venice, where you honeymooned), or cherished literary or film characters (Greta, Meg, or Atticus, for example). Check out a couple of baby-name books to help you brainstorm, too.

Pregnant At A Concert

If you don't regularly read our family blog you missed out on my post about being at a concert last night. So here is the link in case you're curious about how it went!

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Conversation With A 3-Year Old

This conversation was had while I was pushing the wee lad on a tire swing at the park.

Me: "Hey! You bonked my baby with the tire swing."

Boy: "Did you swallow your baby?"

Me: "No but it does look like I did, huh!"

Boy: "How did it get in there?"

Me: "Magic!" (It's always wierd to have this conversation with someone else's kid. You just never want to muddle in someone else's parenting approach!)

Boy: "How will you get the baby out?"

Me: "I'm going to push real hard."

Boy: *Giggle* "No!!"

Me: "OK, you tell me how I'm going to get the baby out then."

Boy: "You go to the hospital. They're going to make a boo boo in your stomach, then let some blood out, then the baby will come out, then they put a biiiiiiiiiig band-aid on it. But it won't hurt. Well.......it will hurt a little bit."

Is it just me or does it sound like this 3-year old has been taking C-Section Prep Classes at INOVA Alexandria?

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

September Visitor/Mommy's Helper

My best friend Elizabeth from Texas is planning a trip to Virginia to spend time with me and the Wee Babe during my maternity leave! I'm so excited! I'm even more excited because the airfare we found was unbelieveably low! It was only $199 round trip!

It will be so fun to have her there for support and laughter! I was there when her daughter was just 5 weeks old (11 years ago)!! It was so special to be around them at that time. I've known Liz since I was 15 and so we've had a lot of milestones together. I'm glad that this one will be spent with her too.

2 More Weeks!

Only 2 more weeks until I'm in my 3rd Trimester. That's just CRAZY!

Monday, April 27, 2009

Daddy

**This just in! Eric is NOT "grossed out" by my belly and/or the fact that there is a baby living inside of it. He just informed me that because it's his baby - it's all good under my hood! Nice!

Last night when I first got in bed the wee babe was doing somersaults. It was insane. I am always so curious when this happens. What IS the baby doing? Getting comfortable? Getting Angry? Dancing? Telling us to be quiet and go to bed? Making a political statement? For some reason I always imagine the baby is frustrated about something in life and taking it out on my insides. I haven't even met this kid yet but it just reminds me of Eric so much so far. (Short on patients but still really fun to have around.)

Eric and I could SEE the baby's body parts poking through last night. And then Eric put his hand there and the baby walloped him good! This was all definitely one of my favorite pregnancy moments so far.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Sun Tanning

This weekend was a family reunion on my Moms side. It was held at the beach house and it was really fun. The weather was AMAZING - upper 80s. I did spend a few minutes laying out in the sun with a bikini on. It was pretty nice to feel the sun on the belly. It was especially nice since I was just with family and so I didn't have to be embarrassed about the size of my melons or the new, larger shape of my thighs! I did NOT allow pictures to be taken of me laying out though. While I've enjoyed logging in the details of my pregnancy -- I'm fairly certain that how I looked in a bikini during this time is not something I will want to reminisce on.

My Mom has 5 sisters and 4 of them were at the reunion. It was interesting to hear everyone else's input on their pregnancies. There were some Aunts who liked being pregnant and some who didn't. We discussed stretch marks and hemorrhoids, swelling and cravings. One of my aunts gave birth to one of my cousins in the month of August (like I will) and she laid out during the summer months leading up to the birth. It was a little disturbing to find out that she was left with a black wrinkly mess of a stomach after the baby was born and her stomach shrunk. I don't know why I hadn't thought of that outcome. With that in mind my hours in the sun without sunblock on the belly will probably be limited from here on out. I'm counting on having enough self image issues after the baby is born -- the last thing I need is a black wrinkly tummy. I guess this is one case where my Moms saying, "tan fat is better that white fat" really doesn't work.